Good and Bad Turn

1月 07, 2016

          
            Two friends were walking through a desert. During the journey, they quarrelled over a dispute and one friend slapped the other. The one, who was slapped wrote on the sand, ''Today my best friend slapped me.'' He was hurt, but did not say anything. His logic was edifying...

            As they walked on, they came to an oasis, where they decided to take bath. Unfortunately, the one who got slapped, got stuck in the mud and was about to get drowned. However, the other saved him and brought him out of the pool. The person, who was saved, engraved on the stone ''Today, my best friend saved my life.'' The other enquired, ''When I hurt you, you wrote on the sand. But now, when I saved you, you engraved it on the stone. Please explain this.''

           The other friend said : ''When someone hurts you, you should forget it soon, like a writing on the sand gets blown away. But if someone does you good, try to remember it long, like the engraving on stone that cannot blown away.''


Mental injury lasts more than physical injury.



最近老是听见,那是你的事情。
这句话听着就像故事里的主角被朋友掌了一掴。
心里很难过,但的确都是自己的事。
为什么同样一句话,只要语气不同就是个180°的另一种态度?
为什么不管是熟悉的人陌生人,不能用一样的态度?
为什么事情总是没有公平?
有好多好多的问题。

看完这个故事过后,心情莫名其妙好很多。
就该把这些话写在沙上,风一吹、海浪一打,什么都云淡风轻。
学习不太在意一些事情。与其开口要求,不如亲力亲为。

人类是多么可怕的动物,要在10个人里找到在乎自己的人,不如自己照顾自己多一些。
少一些麻烦,少一些受伤。
应该好好珍惜家人,那些无条件付出的亲人们。
多一点珍惜,少一点抱怨。

别问我些废话,我不想也不知道怎么回答。
别跟我说废话,我分不清几时得认真。
别对我开玩笑,我活得挺认真的。
别对我没礼貌,我活着有底线。

把那些收到的好,刻在石头上。
即使不公平,至少知道自己没有愧对他人。

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释怀了许多,希望自己别老是在上课走神。
2015过得太快,认识了很多人,读懂很多事。
很多很多的第一次,很多很多的新尝试。
喜欢自己的18岁,未完待续。

新的一年与我的大大和内内一起过。
                                                            with my love.


大家新年快乐啦!

Never worry about things that not in our control.

-huijing-

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